Football Fraternity

I've been trying to see if I could keep all or most of my October posts Halloweeny or Fallish in some way.  It's been more difficult than I thought, and though this post is a stretch, I think it counts. 

Indy's infatuation with fall has all to do with the cool, crisp weather, and the promise of a haunted Halloween.  It's also football season!  Indy is a huge New York Giants fan- such a big fan, that he's the guy who says stuff like, "What we need to do is...." or "We can't keep letting them get by us like that!"  For Indy, the fact that he isn't being paid a gajillion dollars to play in the Natinoal Football League means nothing- he is not merely a "fan," he is part of the team.

If any of you are football fans out there, you might be aware that the Giants are currently 0 and 6.  Yes, you read that correctly.  Out of six games, they've won zero.

When they lost the first game of the season, Indy was pretty bummed.

When they lost the second game of the season, Indy was pretty angry.

When they lost the third game of the season, Indy declaired that we would no longer be watching the games.

Since then he's let the NFL app on his phone and disappointing texts from friends update him on the three additional losses.  Every Sunday he mopes around the house like there's a big, gray raincloud looming over his every step.

However, this weekend, I was able to witness the brotherly love shared by complete strangers who root for the same, losing team.

It started with a trip to Dunkin' Donuts.  Indy wanted to get a pumpkin-spiced something and once inside, we were face-to-face with one of these bad boys:

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Eli Manning. The New York Giants' Quarterback. Shoving a cardboard sandwich in our faces.

Indy proceeded to the counter and not only ordered his pumpkin-spiced whatever, but also got six donuts! (Very unlike him!)  I jokingly pointed to the blue and white striped donuts labeled "Go Giants!" and asked, "Want one of those?"  He very loudly proclaimed, "No. I do not want a Giants donut."  At that point the DD employee gave Indy the saddest look and just shook his head from side to side.  He then said, "I'm giving you an extra."  We left with our 13 donuts, and Indy was a little happier.

The next day we found ourselves in Home Depot. Indy's parents had gifted us their old grill when we moved in May, but for some reason the gas tank attachment wouldn't come off the tank we had, and even with the help of three HD employees, we couldn't get it off:

I asked, "Why were so many guys helping you?" He said, "They saw my hat and said they wanted to help out a Giants fan."

On our way home from HD, we stopped to get gas.  The attendant was a super nice guy who, after taking our credit card, spend the next five minutes discussing with Indy the pitfalls of the team, what "we" needed to start doing and stop doing.  He even made some comment about how he wouldn't want to be at Manning's house for Thanksgiving after a season like this.  Indy and the attendant laughed a while over their shared misery and we were on our way.

I was just amazed to see how open these complete strangers were when they realized someone else was sharing in their pain.  They were kinder to each other than usual, because the team they both liked is sucking, hard.  I don't think there's anything women react to in that way.

Anyway, we got home that night and I had an e-mail from my Big Little Brother in my inbox.  It read, "This is what Indy does when he goes to watch football with his friends..."

We both got a pretty big laugh out of it!  And I can guarantee you this: there will definitely be an Indy Dance Party whenever they do end up winning a game!

Dream Halloween Vacations

Indy's obsessions with both Halloween and Traveling leave us having the same conversation every fall, "Where would you love to be on Halloween?"

Unfortunately, with my teaching profession, and Indy's soon-to-be teaching profession, long vacations around Halloween are unlikely, however weekend trips are a possibility every 6-7years or so (depending on the leap year, of course!)

I've compiled a list of the *best* places to be on Halloween in hopes that we may be able to complete a few of them.

1. Salem, Massachusetts

This is the only one from my list that Indy and I have actually done!  Back in 2008 we spent Halloween in Salem, and it was amazing.  Think Mardi Gras meets Halloween.  Salem was pulsing with activity that Halloween weekend- all the shops and restaurants were completely decked out in Halloween decorations, and there were so many colorful characters (some costumed, some not!)  But more than the party-scene, Indy and I enjoyed the history.  Salem is so rich with it, and it's evident on every street corner.  There were so many different types of museums and learning centers, different community theaters and information stands.  It was the ultimate combination of educational and fun.  We're hoping to maybe make it back to Salem in 2015, when Halloween will be on a Saturday again.

2. Derry, Ireland

Believe it or not, the origins of Halloween are believed to have been in Celtic Ireland (some places argues Scotland as well).  The Gaelic festival of Samhain was a celebration of the end of the harvest season and the beginning of winter, celebrated at the sunset of Oct. 31st and into the wee hours of the morning.  It was kind of their "new years," and considered to be the last day of the year where the souls of the dead came back to their homes, and evil spirits were released from wherever they'd been kept.  In fact, jack-o-lanterns originated in Ireland as a way to ward off evil spirits from entering the home!  Derry, Ireland is home to the world's biggest Halloween celebration.  Something like 30,000 people take to the streets to celebrate with costumes, music, games and other celebrations.

3. New Orleans, Louisiana

Indy and I have never been, but NOLA is on my list of top 10 places to visit in the near future, whether it happens to be on or around Halloween, or not.  Along with NOLA's rich culture and amazing food, they've got deep ties to voodoo worship and witchcraft.  I've heard they've got incredible ghost tours and in a place so lively the rest of the year, how could it not be an incredible place to be on Halloween?! I've also heard they have incredible concerts around this time of year- another reason to go!

4. Bran, Romania

Dracula, by Bram Stoker (who was an Irish author, by the way) is one of Indie's all-time favorite books.  Every year he nags me to read it (I will, eventually!).  We've watched tons of Dracula films and documentaries (my fav's are the 1992 Dracula with Gary Oldman, and Leslie Nielsen's Dracula: Dead and Loving It...which Indy doesn't really count, but I do!)  We've talked about traveling to Romania just because, but all the Dracula ties make it all the more enticing.  Even though it's been beaten like a dead horse, and anyone who knows anything about Dracula knows that he, was not, in fact, based on Vlad the Impaler of Romania, it'd still be fun to go there and see all the castles and stuff.  Romania has it's own non-draucla mystery, and I'd love to be there on Halloween to check it out.

5. Bangkok, Thailand

Thailand, and South East Asia in general, is the goal for our next "big" international trip (we're crossing our fingers for this coming summer).  In all of our research, we've found that despite being a Buddhist cuntry, Bangkok is one of the best places to be on Halloween.  Go figure!  I've read it's more about a reason to party than actual beliefs in spirits and ghouls and goblins, but it still sounds like a good time.  There are tons of restaurants and bars that really get into the Halloween spirit, as well as big costume parties in the streets.  I've also read it's a big time of year for Thailand's gay community- the more outrages the costume the better, and every year they try to out-do the one before it.  Having been to the New York Halloween parade more times than I can count, I've seen some pretty outrageous costumes- I'd love to see if Thailand is a contender!

Have you ever spent Halloween somewhere cool?  Have any place to add to my list?

festival of Samhain

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Evidence of Fall

Indy and I spent all of Saturday (and I mean all of it- from 10am until 10pm) driving around New Jersey and New York with his visiting, extended family to do some pumpkin/apple picking.  We had a beautiful day, and while I was physically and mentally exhausted at the end of the day (try traveling with a four-car, 14 person caravan all day!) I did end up getting some nice fall shots to share.  It's pretty fitting as my Photography 2 homework assignment this weekend was "Evidence of Fall."

Fire Burn and Cauldron Bubble!

I'm just gonna say it- witches are cool.

My little sister and I shared not only a room, but also a love for all things witchcraft from a young age.  I think it started with our obsession with Joss Wheadon's Buffy the Vampire Slayer t.v. show.  Buffy was, in fact, a vampire slayer- but her best friend Willow was a witch!  We always thought she was way cooler.

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Then Charmed came out.  They're three sisters, all names starting with the letter "P," we're three sisters, all names starting with the letter "K." We were hooked!

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Sabrina the Teenage Witch- every Friday night!

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Hell, we would even watch Bewitched on Nick at Night!

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(We watched both the black and white and color episodes)

We were pretty obsessed, but I will admit that she took it a bit further than I ever did.  In fact, she was so into it, that my mom would take her to a "witch store" a few towns over, where they actually sold crystals and incense and spell books.  (My mom is really cool like that.)

So imagine my pure joy to find out that the third installment of Ryan Murphy's super creepy series would be American Horror Story: Coven.  I can't wait to see Jessica Lange as a witch- she's gonna own it!

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While on our ghost tour in Scotland we heard a ton about witches.  (They usually come up at some point in every ghost tour, just so you're prepared.)  In the U.K., they had their fair share of witch hunts, and we learned some really interesting facts about that time.  Here are a few for your enjoyment:

-Witches were mostly women, but a few men were accused of being witches as well.

-Witches were believed to hex someone by pointing at them.  This is where the whole "pointing is rude" thing came from.

-Pretty much anyone could be accused of being a witch at any time, for any reason.  The hysteria was so insane that people wouldn't think logically about why someone was being accused of being a witch, and just believed that they were one.

-Some places burned their witches.  Others hung them.  But in many places, to find out if someone were a true witch, they would chain their hands and feet together (or in Scotland, they would nail their hands to their knees...) then toss them off into the nearest body of water.  If they floated, they were certainly a witch!  They would be fished out, and properly burned/hung.  If they sunk, well, then, they weren't a witch after all.  The townspeople would fish out the body and give the family a proper burial. As you can imagine, most of them sunk...and as for the floaters- most weren't witches.  Air would get caught under their large dresses as they were tossed into the water, and kept them afloat.

Rough, huh?

Anyway, I'm so excited for AMH: Coven, I just can't wait.  I taped it last night and plan on watching it later tonight with Indy and our favorite Halloween cat:

Ghost Tours - Strange Happenings in a Town Near You!

Indy and I love to travel.  We try to save up for a "big" trip (international, or at least, on the west of the country) and a "small" trip (nearby states) every year.  We started back when we met in '07 and haven't been able to stop!

If there's one thing Indy loves more than traveling, it's Halloween and History (in that order).  And leave it to him to find a way to combine the two- even outside the month of October!  Since '07 Indy and I have been on six, yes six Ghost Tours.

What's a Ghost Tour?  Allow me to explain...

Whether you believe in them or not, almost every small town across the world has some type of ghost story.  And if every small town across the world has some type of ghost story, you can imagine how many more ghost stories there are in the biggest towns and cities across the globe.  Go ahead, Google, "Ghost Tour" and the name of the largest city near you, and I'll bet something will come up.

From my experience, almost all ghost tours are set up similarly:  You meet your tour guide (sometimes dressed in period clothing, usually wearing a dark cloak, and almost always carrying a lantern of some kind) in a public area where they begin the tour with a super creepy introductory tale, or a big, boisterous welcome speech.  Then, you spend between an hour and a half to two hours on a walking tour of the area, stopping intermittently to hear a little bit about the historical importance of a particular street/building/person, followed by stories about the ghostly encounters that are rumored to have happened there.

Some ghost tours are ultra creepy.  Some ghost tours are hysterically funny.  All ghost tours that I have been on have been very informative, entertaining, and a fantastic way to learn more about a new city.

Here's a time line of the places we've been and ghost toured, along with a link to the company we used (although, for most major cities there are at least two companies that do this):

’07 -Philly, Penn:  http://www.ghosttour.com/philadelphia.html 

’08 -San Francisco, California: http://www.sfghosthunt.com/fatcow.com/Welcome.html

’08- Salem, Massachusetts: http://www.spellboundtours.com/

’12 -Brisbane, Australia: http://www.ghost-tours.com.au/Pages/tour_list_ghost_tours.htm

’13 -Edinburgh, Scotland: http://www.witcherytours.com/

’13 -Portland, Maine: http://wickedwalkingtours.com/

I can honestly say we only had one ghostly encounter in all six of these tours, and fortunately I've got the photographic proof to share!

While we on our ghost tour in Salem back in '09, the tour guide kept asking us all to snap photos at each site, explaining that some ghosts will manifest on film/digital screens better than in real life.  Those little dusty orbs you always see in movies, or in an "ectoplasm"- kind of a smoke-like trail of light.

On the tour I'd been snapping and snapping away, chimping at my camera after every shot with nothing to get excited over.  Yeah, there were dust balls or orbs here and there, but nothing big.  Then we reached the end of the tour- a big parking lot that was once a prison yard for a prison that at one time held Massachusetts most gruesome, soulless criminals (yeah, that's what they all say!).  Our guide was telling us about the ghost of one particularly scary criminal who stabbed his victims and often appeared in tourist shots.  I was snap, snap, snapping away- 5 shots in a row.  I took a minute to look back through my photos:

Nothing:

Nothing:

GHOST:

Nothing:

Nothing:

When I saw that "ghost" shot on my playback screen, I nearly pooped myself!  I seriously got a pang in my chest and felt like I was having a hot flash.  I quickly called Indy over and his eyes grew wide as saucers!

Just after this spot, our tour guide lead us a block or two away to thank and dismiss us, offering to check out anyone's photos to confirm/deny ghostly activities.  We hopped online and heard him dismiss everyone, "Nope....Just some orbs....Nah....Nothing....Orbs....Nope...." Then we we handed him my camera and he freaked out! "Oh my god!" He yelled, "Everyone come back, look at this- THIS is a ghost, see all the ectoplasm?!"

His excitement made me laugh, but also scared the crap out of me.  He begged me to send him a copy of the photo so they could post it on their site and insisted on giving me his business card.  I never did get around to sending it to them, and every October I feel badly about it- but I'm sure they've gotten plenty more since '08.

We've got plenty of time left in October for you to find and book your first ghost tour.  Do it! Maybe you'll come away with a ghost photo like me! One that you can whip out every October to scare the heck out of your Photography students!  More than likely you'll just have an awesome time.

Sweet Surprises!

Since my surprise appendectomy on Monday, I've been holed up in the house, on the couch, medicated and resting.  I realize that my health is bigger than my job, than my drive to get things done. And for the first few days, all I could do was rest, but now that I'm on the mend, I'm getting antsy.

Physically I'm in way better shape now than I was five days ago, although I still can't stand up all the way without my incisions on my stomach or the muscles in my back hurting, and I still can't lift anything too heavy.  But mentally I'm starting to break down a bit!  Indy's been a fabulous nurse, waiting on me hand and foot, but eventually he had to get back to his own normal routine of class and student teaching, and that left me alone for 6, 8, some times 10 hours of the day!  I had lots of check-in phone calls from family and friends, and even a few visits from my sister and my nephew, but after answering the same questions, or describing the same scenarios for the 100th time, it gets old.  I needed some change! Something fun!

Today I was awoken from a nap with a two quick knocks on the door.  At first, I panicked for a minute thinking, "I'm in my pajamas! I can't answer that!"  I just sat on the couch for a bit and waited.  Nothing.  That was the all-clear I needed.  Since we moved to our new apartment in May, I picked up on our UPS delivery guy's style- no doorbell ringing, no waiting for a signature, instead he always knocks twice in rapid succession, then leaves the package on the doorstep.

When I was sure he'd gone, I opened the door and found a huge package from "Shari's Berries."

My initial reaction was, "Huh? He's got the wrong apartment..."  I definitely didn't order anything from "Shari's Berries," and Indy is pretty good about sharing his online orders with me. (In fact, he's quite paranoid that some little punks will also catch wind of our UPS delivery guy's style and swipe our stuff when we're not home.)

I took it inside, double checked the address, and when I realized it was sent to me, personally, I ripped that baby open.

What did I find?

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Not one, but TWO sets of the cutest freaking cake pops I've ever seen!  Indy's best friend and his wife (whom I've become very close with over the last 6 years, and can now call one of my best friends) send me two sets of these "Get Well Soon"chocolate cake/vanilla iced pops with a note reading, "Everyone knows you can't heal properly without some sweets! Get well soon!"

How adorable?!  I was so genuinely surprised I actually teared up a little!  They could not have come at a better time, and let me tell you, the are delicious!  They lifted my spirits and made me feel so loved.

I'm definitely saving "Shari's Berries" as a go-to for the up-coming holidays.  They do all kinds of beautiful sweet treats- and not just cake pops!  They do all types of dipped fruits, cookies, pretzels, and candy.  Even chocolate-dipped cheesecake!  They do cupcakes, truffles, even sugar-free treats.  Baked goods and baskets galore!  So many ways to send an up-lifting treat with a personal touch.  I can't wait to enjoy these babies over the weekend!

Tis the Season!

In this house we get excited for Halloween the way most people get excited for Christmas. 

Since last week Indy has been selecting a different Fall/Halloween-inspired movie from his collection of over 600 DVDs (someone has a problem!) for us to watch for each night of October.  I realize for most normal people that watching a full movie every night of the week sounds ridiculous, but welcome to my life. (We've already watched: Bedknobs and Broomsticks, The Dead Poet's Society, The Shining, and Room 237- a documentary on The Shining).

We've already made plans for apple/pumpkin picking.  I can't really complain about this one, though, because we recently started a tradition where Indy's little cousins (twin 5 year olds and an 8 year old) fly up from West Palm Beach, Florida to get a small taste of fall with us.  I can't wait to get photos of them in the orchards!

Indy has excitedly linked me to the Fall Foliage Network's website at least 5 times.  Yea, that's a real thing. Check it out.

Are you starting to understand? The man is obsessed.  And while I should be thankful that he isn't a gambler, a golf fanatic, or even a motorhead, I must admit, his love for all things fall does wear on me.

So when I saw this "movie trailer", I nearly died:

In the first four days of October, he's already made/made me eat: pumpkin spiced pancakes, pumpkin soup, apple cider, pumpkin and chocolate Hershey kisses, and Trader Joe's pumpkin spiced latte mix.

We still have 27 days to go, people!  At this rate, I'm going to die of pumpkin poisoning.  Is that a thing?  If you're a nurse or a doctor and know that it is in fact a thing, please give me a head's up.  At least, if I don't survive through Hallween, you all will know why.